Teenage Love

December 2, 2008

Teenage Love

Sounds sweet and pretty common in fact. But what is it really about? Some says this kind of love is sweet & one of the type that will fall into memorable moments, some says this love is pretty much wild on nature. Teenagers fall into different categories, like classifying them in a laboratory for experiments. And for that classification, people tend to fall in to like to the types they are usually comfortable with. Lets say a geek to a geek, or a cheer dancer to a basketball player. That’s a pretty common scenario but what about a simple, nerdy geek + a hot basketball player?

Chaos don’t you think? For other people maybe yes. Why? Because other people cannot reassess the value of the personality rather than the looks & other physical means. Falling in love in teenagers is quite dramatic. Often may lead into a serious of unfortunate events that will lead to be dropped out in school, fall into drugs and sororities and the likes. Later on, in reality today those who will fall into that kind of mess will realize how wrong they are, to what they have done on their former days.

In human survival, we need heat, we need warmth but that doesn’t satisfy a human being alone.  In the expense of human evolution, we experience a stir of mixed emotions & social interaction, allowing us to be flexible in any certain ways – and that includes of adapting & experiencing new ways of life.

Absence of that ’something’ can leave a gap within us, like a big black hole sucking all our possible happiness & joy. We can never be happy. We always seek for that one, fighting for every possibility to satisfy our emotional needs. Every one of us get tired eventually, physically, spiritually & emotionally. Love alone is stupid without the action of the mind and common sense. Teenagers alone are known to be wild and playful.

That is why, most people after experiencing teenage love tend to hold on strongly in their succeeeding relationships. Not only they realize their mistakes, but they know within themselves what they can do for their lives and to their partners lives. Love isnt enough, everybody needs to be practical.